And then…

This is Irish Soda Bread. More accurately, the recipe says it is American Irish Soda Bread. Seems like there’s one word too many in that name to me. Also known as tomorrow’s breakfast. The recipe called for “coarse white sugar,” which I naturally didn’t have. What DID I have on hand? You guessed it. Gonna have to do.

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And now, because I was completely reckless and made another food related promise, we will make pizza for dinner. Wish me luck.

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Don’t judge me. It’s raining.

I absolutely just bribed my kid to clean up his toys by telling him we’d bake brownies when he was done. I know that’s awful parenting but I didn’t much care. It’s raining and we can’t go outside. Plus, I want brownies.

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Ian: Mommy, are we doing this backwards?
Me: no, we’re doing it exactly in order.
Ian: But, I LIKE backwards.
Me: Sorry, sweetie, you have to make the brownies, then eat them. If you could eat brownies before you made them, no one would ever make brownies. And there would be no brownies, and that would be sad.
Ian: (pauses for thought.) So. We make the brownies, then we eat them.

The more things change

I can’t remember a time when I didn’t know that my grandmother, The Wise and Wonderful Betty Gray, had a sister who died when they were children. That piece of information was just a fact for most of my life. A date on the family tree and a name.

After my grandfather died, Grandma told me about her father throwing himself into Jean’s grave, sobbing that he wanted his daughter back. Jean started to be a little more real to me then. So did my great grandfather. When Jean died of diptheria, she was 9, and my grandmother was six years old. Just a bit more than a year older than Ian is right this minute. She lived 93 years. She raised five children and had 10 grandchildren and three great grandchildren during her lifetime. Part of her never stopped being the six year old girl who saw her sister for the last time.

Now I’m a mom, and I’m seeing some of the family photographs from when my grandmother and her sisters were children for the first time. I certainly saw a lot of family photos when I visited Erie, but I’d never seen these. They add a whole other dimension to this story. Because my kids take after these madcap Lynch girls by quite a bit. I see expressions and attitudes in these photos taken 100 years ago and they are the same I see every day. The haircuts are different, the photo processes were different, but the minds and personalities behind those photos feel so FAMILIAR. In every sense of the word. And Jean and her two little sisters are becoming less abstract. I feel like I’m getting to know my Grandma and my Great Aunt Eileen more- not as they were when I knew them, but as they were before the loss of their sister changed everything.

I look at this face:

Jean Lynch in 1916 or '17 (?)and I can’t help but see this:

Keeghan, April 4 2012You can learn more about the Lynch girls on my dad’s site. Start here.

Jenny and her girls (Jean and Betty):

Me and my boys:

Won’t you be my neighbor?

Apparently, it’s not Spring, but Moving Season around here. No matter where I head on my walk, there are several houses either for sale or just sold. There is also still lots of furious construction of ENORMOUS new homes going on. Haven’t they heard? The economy is bad. People are scaling back. (!)

I, for one, would be sad to see all the charming, mid-century homes in my neighborhood torn down and crowded out for a bunch of houses all made out of ticky-tacky and all looking just the same.

There are still some really hideous houses built in the 80s around. Feel free to knock those down.

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Total miles: 1.72